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Wardrobe Tips for your Boudoir Shoot!

All women are beautiful! Curves, no curves, all shapes, all sizes, are beautiful. I often get questions from clients saying "I'm curvy, so what should I wear?" or "I have no butt!".  Here's a few tips based on the most common concerns I get from women and how to enhance those features with wardrobe.
 
Curvy bodies - BRING ON THE FORM-FITTING ITEMS! I adore bodysuits, tight dresses, and nothing at all…. especially for voluptuous bombshells. We often see curvy women trying to cover up more, but often that has the opposite effect they think it will. Allowing me to pose you so that we can see your figure and celebrate it is the way to go! Also items like denim/leather jackets, white/chambray button up shirts, lace robes always look flattering as well.

Flat-butts – My key to all great butt shots: G-strings (or g-string cuts on bodysuits)! These tend to make a butt look fuller than full-coverage bottoms. Play around in the mirror with different styles to see what you like best. And don't worry, I'm a pro at creating curves in posing where there aren't any otherwise. I guarantee you that every client will walk away with great butt shots… PROMISE!

Shorter legs - High heels with a THIN heel rather than chunky can help if we’re doing full body shots! Also avoid dark thick stockings.  Go for something with a lighter denier.  Also choose outfits that have a high cut.  The higher the cut, the longer your legs will look. 

Thin/no curves -  That’s all in the posing! Form fitting options and nothing at all work great as I pose the heck out of you to make you look and feel like a goddess.

Small chest – Underwires, lacy bralets and balconettes are lovely, as well as NO BRA AT ALL!  And also, small boobs rock. So please don't feel the NEED to create extra "oomph" unless it's something that really concerns you.

"Mum boobs" - If your breasts are a bit lower or “saggier” than you’d like them to be, just be sure to bring a bra with some support, or form fitting bodysuits that will keep them at bay. No need for push-ups or chicken cutlets, either. It’s best to keep clothing form-fitting if you’re ultra voluptuous to show off those curves! Posing will play a huge role here, and I’m really good at that. So…bring your mom boobs my way and we’ll embrace the hell out of them!
 
Surgery scars and stretch marks - My personal believe is that scars tell a story. Sometimes clients wish they didn’t have to be permanently reminded of that story, and other times, clients embrace their scars and say they’re a part of them. For this reason, I will never edit out a scar or stretch mark unless a client specifically requests it….and if they do request that retouching, I will happily do that at no additional charge. This is a VERY personal topic and it’s not my decision to make. I welcome scars and stretch marks, but I also support a woman’s decision to conceal them if they would like!

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YOUR THEME

Now that we know what brings out your inner sexy self we can discuss your theme. Theme is, but not limited to the following questions:
 
Are these pictures for you or someone special? Is their a special occasion involved? Are you looking to capture sweet and girly? Classic? Ultra sexy and seductive? Conversely, if you tend to be more conservative in your everyday life, but there is a fierce and fiery seductress aching to come out, now would be the perfect time to play with embodying this role. Maybe you are looking to capture a few different sides of yourself. Something sweet, AND something sexy. Having a theme will help mainstream the process, give you some direction and a little peace of mind. There are so many ‘looks’ in boudoir photography and it’s easy to get caught up in wanting a little bit of everything, but that would make for a chaotic day. Once you know what your end goal is you can relax into the experience a little bit more.
 

FIND YOUR STYLE

This step is so important. What is YOUR style?  Exploring this question is key to finding out what makes you feel the most comfortable, and ultimately most confident in your photos. If you are not comfortable in an ultra strappy Honey Birdette set, you certainly do not want to try and strike a pose in front of the camera wearing one. Do you love lace? Push Ups? More or less coverage? Thongs vs bikini’s? Trying on different styles AND silhouettes will give you time to take yourself in, and see your body dressed in something besides your normal everyday bra and underwear.


Chances are, you don’t wear bodysuits or suspenders and stocking very often. Being able to take the time to dress your body and see what works/doesn’t work will give you all the more confidence in front of the camera. If you’re anything like most women, you will be shocked at how sexy you feel in styles that you would have never considered before. This is where the fun starts happening.  You start seeing yourself in a different light, which is the point of all of this, right? To reveal the inner you…

Here are some great items to think about that usually work well for most women:  

  • White tank top   

  • Oversized sweater / Tshirt

  • Ripped jeans

  • G-string

  • Full lingerie set

  • Body chain / chain bra

  • Lace robe

  • Veil (if you're getting married)

  • Bodysuit

  • Button up shirt

  • Denim / leather / fur jacket

  • Sheets

  • Nothing at all
     

Sometimes people need to see things visually to be inspired for a look.  Have a look through my Pinterest board here which is full of thousands of ideas for not only outfits, but poses for your boudoir shoot…  start getting inspired and have fun choosing your looks for your boudoir shoot!

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THE NUMBER ONE WARDROBE RULE IS: Do NOT bring outfits that you don't love! I can't tell you how many women show up with outfits that prompt them to say "I really don't like the way I look in this one, but I'll leave it up to you!". If you don't like the outfit, it's likely that you won't like photos of you in the outfit. Leave it at home!

Lingerie is NOT a must! Especially complete lingerie sets. Don't be afraid to get creative! For a boudoir style shoot, fishnets would go great with a cropped shirt or jumper. A gorgeous bra can be paired with mismatched bottoms, or no bottoms at all. A sheet can be used for everything. This is about YOU and your authentic personality, not about being someone you aren’t.

When in doubt, just bring in some of your favourite wardrobe items and let me style them for you.  Structured pieces and solids look great on camera as well as items with texture, and those that are form fitting to show your figure. I generally say try to avoid anything with a bold pattern that can be distracting, and date over time.  Try to incorporate a variety of pieces into your wardrobe selections.  Having 3 different black underwear sets won't allow for a whole lot of variety in your photos. Rather, mis things up, have something casual, something super fun, something more risqué, to something black and sleek... you get the idea!

If you want to chat more with me, just click on the button below. I would love to hear from you.  Let’s start planning your dream shoot!

Are you ready to change your life?

It’s 2019 and feminine power is on the rise!  Women are becoming more liberated and empowered than ever before. So why not celebrate your womanhood and book a boudoir shoot… it may just change your life!

I’ve heard all the excuses women make as for why they can’t do a boudoir shoot. I bet if I asked a lot of women they would say saying something like… “I need to lose weight first”, “I’m not sexy enough”, “I don’t have any lingerie”, “I’m not young enough to do that”, or “I’m not <insert insecurity here> enough.”  Whatever it may be, I can tell you now that all of those excuses are bullshit!

Women have a great habit of mentally beating themselves up, and using negative words to describe themselves.  I know I’m guilty of this at times too.  But trust me when I say, this boudoir shoot experience has the ability to change how you see yourself and how you carry yourself every day.  I’ve seen the changes in women first hand.  Booking a boudoir shoot an investment in you… over and above the images!

 I understand that having a professional photograph taken can be a little nerve wracking, especially boudoir photos. But take a deep breath and relax… because you will be well looked after. I’ve been creating beautiful boudoir imagery for hundreds of women for over 8 years, so your investment in my services extends way beyond the click of a button. From start to finish you’ll receive a professional, seamless experience that’s easy and enjoyable.  So rest assured that you’re in excellent hands!

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COMBAT THE NERVES & THE SELF DOUBT TO BOOK

I know women well enough though to be realistic. I understand many of you struggle with self-love, no matter how much anyone insists on your beauty. You’re still going to want to lose a few more kilos before the session right? For THOSE women, I can assure you, this isn’t my first rodeo! The majority of women who come in to see me are working on loving themselves, but struggle. There’s usually something the wish they could change... the size of their thighs, their tummy, their stretch marks, etc... I take women’s feelings very seriously and specialise in making everyone feel MORE than comfortable.

It’s remarkable the number of women I hear say “I can’t be sexy”. The truth is they couldn’t be more wrong. Women are naturally sexy, full stop – and I can prove it. You don’t need to know how to pose, or be a model to do a boudoir shoot. I will coach and guide you into poses that highlight your natural beauty, and show off your best assets. Take this moment to step into your femininity!   I’ve spent the last 8 years photographing all kinds of women, all remarkable in their own way. I’ve mastered my craft to ensure that I am highlighting the attributes that women love most about themselves, whilst downplaying any areas of concern.

The majority of the women that I shoot come in quite nervous and have never been in front of a camera before. That’s completely normal!  What I promise is that we will make sure you have a great day, relax quickly, and most of all have fun. You will leave feeling gorgeous and fantastic - that’s a promise. So I’d encourage you to plan a special afternoon or night afterwards to go celebrate your new found confidence!

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GET COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SKIN

Do you have to get nude during the shoot?  The answer of course is no.  But I will strongly encourage it at the end of your shoot.  Why?  Because it is completely invigorating, empowering and totally fine to love your naked body!  You will be so comfortable by this stage of the shoot; you will forget you are naked in front of a stranger. Or better yet… you won’t care!  We’re all women, and my focus will be on posing you, working with the light, and capturing your body in the most flattering ways possible (don’t worry, all your lady bits will be strategically hidden).  Fine art-nude shots are so effortlessly beautiful and timeless and quite often, the favourite images from a client’s shoot. These types of shots are amazing for women of any shape or size, and the finished images are so classy you will want to have them on display on your walls!

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IT’S ACTUALLY A LOT OF FUN! 

How often do we, as women and mums, take time to pamper ourselves?  If you’re anything like me, very rarely.  Use this experience as an opportunity to not only be pampered by a professional hair and makeup artist on the day of your shoot, but also to practice some more self love exercises… have your nails done, get a facial, get a fake tan, go shopping and buy some new lingerie.  You deserve it!

 
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DO THIS FOR YOU

Sorry to burst the bubble, but doing a boudoir shoot is NOT about a man!  Of course, there’s nothing wrong with doing a boudoir shoot for your partner, but how liberating and beautiful would it be if you did it for YOURSELF only?

We spend so much time focused on our careers, our families, our Facebook status... we don't take the time to actually take care of ourselves. Take a day to get pampered by a professional stylist… have an empowering photo shoot… then enjoy a stunning a collection of photos, that you can look at as often as you want! Reminding yourself just how AMAZING you are … might just be what you need right now. And remember - It's not selfish to treat yourself once in a while. It's necessary.

Reinvigorate yourself as a woman.  See yourself through someone else’s eyes. Ooze confidence, strength, and passion. You can do this… just like some of these beautiful women before you…

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MUM BOD 

After having kids, your body is never quite the same as it was when you were 20 years old. The shape of your body has changed and shifted, and as women we often get critical of ourselves. But why shouldn’t we love and appreciate our bodies for what they are now and what they have accomplished?!  Now you have more curves… and you know what? That’s actually sexy and feminine as hell!  The longer you have lived, the more you have to celebrate – your body, your achievements, your perfect imperfections, and motherhood!

I can empathise with how all the mum’s feel about their bodies, after watching my own go through many ups and downs over the last decade - two pregnancies and two kids later. I see women walk into my studio every week, each with their own different body challenges.  And the absolute truth is… each and every one of them has overcome their insecurities, trusted me to capture their beauty, and walked away with an incredible self-esteem boost and beautiful images to match!

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YOU WILL BE INSPIRATION

A lot of women book boudoir shoots with me based on referrals from their friends and family. If you choose to share images from your boudoir experience with other women, you may just be THE inspiration they need to book a shoot. Anxiety and doubt keep so many of us from doing something we always wanted to do.  The more we see women empowering themselves, the more the circle of liberation will continue!


Whether you’re a mum or not, whether you think you need to lose weight, whether you think you’re too old for this, or that your body isn’t as perfect as it once was… YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. A boudoir shoot experience will bring out a side in you that was there all along. It’s the first step towards regaining your confidence… 

 

What can I promise and deliver to you from years of experience as a professional boudoir photographer?

 

VIP SERVICE & PROFESSIONAL HIGH END EDITING

I include beautiful high-end retouching on all my digital images and do not outsource any of my editing work.  You can rest assured that each and every one of your images will be individually hand crafted by me! I strongly believe in quality over quantity, so will ensure every one of your images is exquisitely edited and worthy of display. Some of my images don’t exist straight out of camera, and my attention to detail is what sets me apart from other photographers.  This is your opportunity to have a little bit of magic created just for you!

I always consider what’s important to you and deliver a quality service with the attention to detail you deserve.  As a valued client, you will be invited to join my VIP referral and loyalty program.  You will also receive 24/7 Client Portal Access, a private online gallery, fast email support, and access to the highest quality products from professional print labs around the world!

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A PERSONALISED EXPERIENCE

Boudoir photography has a way of putting you in touch with your personal power. There is something deeply empowering about working with an artist who has been liberating women, in a safe, welcoming, and judgement free environment for almost a decade.  THS IS WHAT I LOVE DOING… and I am confident and excited to capture and showcase your beauty!

One of the things you will notice straight away when you arrive for your shoot is how relaxed, warm and inviting my team and I are.  My professional team of hair & makeup artists and I are here to give YOU the best experience possible.  This is YOUR DAY and we want the focus to be on pampering you - allowing you to live out your photo shoot dreams! My custom designed studio is luxuriously furnished and has a wide variety of options to suit your tastes.

Yes… this shoot is about YOU and how YOU want to be captured.  I will plan and tailor each shoot to align with your vision, ensuring you’re getting the most out of your time and shoot. 

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So what are you waiting for… take the leap… you have nothing to lose and everything to gain! 

Let’s get you started on this self-love journey and boudoir shoot experience!