What to Wear for Your Boudoir Session (And What Not To)

What to Wear for Your Boudoir Session (And What Not To)

One of the most common questions clients ask before their boudoir photoshoot is: What should I wear? The good news… Boudoir photography isn’t about wearing the smallest or sexiest lingerie; it’s about wearing what makes you feel confident.


What Works Beautifully in Boudoir Photography

Some of the most flattering and timeless options include:

  • Well fitted lingerie in neutral (black, white) or deep royal tones (navy, maroon, emerald)

  • Oversized button up shirt / leather or denim jackets

  • Bodysuits

  • Lace robes

  • Body jewellery

  • Wet singlet

  • Big fur coat

  • Wide net fishnet stockings

  • Thigh high boots

  • Bare skin with sheets

  • Bare skin with water

Fit matters far more than size. Anything digging in, twisting, or needing constant adjusting will show in photos. A g-string or v-string cut ALWAYS photographs best… full briefs are comfy for day to do, but not as flattering and don’t work best for those killer booty shots!

What to Avoid Wearing

  • Ill-fitting bras or underwear

  • Clothing with tight elastic that leaves marks

  • Busy patterns or logos

  • Anything you don’t feel comfortable moving in


If you’re constantly worrying about how something looks, it will affect how you feel, and boudoir photography is about feeling empowered.



How Many Outfits Should I Bring?

Most clients bring 3-4 outfit options. We’ll choose what photographs best once you’re in the studio and see how fabrics and tones work with different sets and lighting depending on the vibe you’re after.



Do I Have to Wear Lingerie?

Absolutely not. Boudoir photography can be soft, sensual, strong, elegant, or minimal. Some clients wear lingerie. Others wear nothing but confidence.


There is no “right” way to do boudoir, only what feels right for you.

What to Expect at a Boudoir Photo Shoot in Brisbane

Booking a boudoir photoshoot can feel exciting… and a little nerve-wracking. If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens during a boudoir photography session in Brisbane, you’re not alone.

This guide walks you through the entire experience, so you can arrive feeling prepared, confident, and excited rather than anxious.


Before Your Boudoir Session


Once you book your boudoir photography experience, you’ll receive PLENTY of guidance on how to prepare; from what to wear, posing practice tips, to how to get the most out of your shoot. Most clients spend time selecting lingerie or outfits that make them feel amazing, not uncomfortable or “on show.”

You don’t need modelling experience. You don’t need to know how to pose. And you definitely don’t need to look a certain way.

Boudoir photography is about you, exactly as you are.

boudoir studio entry piano, black and white
brown and gold boudoir studio set, ambient lighting, greenery

Arriving at the Studio

When you arrive at my Brisbane studio, the focus is on creating a calm, welcoming space where you feel safe and supported. We’ll go through your outfits, chat about what you’re drawn to, and ease into the session at your pace.

Most women tell me they’re nervous for the first five minutes, and then something shifts.

hair and makeup boudoir photo shoot
woman in floral lingerie posing on bed for boudoir photo shoot

During the Photoshoot

You’ll be guided through every pose, expression, and movement. From where to place your hands to how to breathe into a pose, nothing is left to chance.

Professional lighting, angles, and posing are used to highlight your natural beauty and create flattering, elegant images. You don’t need to “perform”… just show up.

photographer posing client during boudoir photo shoot

After Your Boudoir Photography Session

After your shoot, you’ll move into the image reveal and ordering process, where you’ll see your photographs and choose how you’d like to enjoy them. Whether that’s luxury albums, wall art, or digital collections.

Most clients leave saying the same thing:

“I wish I’d done this sooner.”

Boudoir photography in Brisbane isn’t about being brave enough, it’s about allowing yourself to be seen.

Explore our boudoir gallery for more inspiration!

Read more about the whole boudoir photo shoot experience!

Brisbane Boudoir Photographer - Stephanie Bowers Photography